Outer Banks Headcanons
This is a list of my headcanons for Outer Banks characters! In general, my headcanons are viewed through the lens of an Everyone Lives AU (or at least a Most Live/Some Die AU lol) and post-canon. These are my main headcanons, but I do have a few headcanons that conflict with the ones listed that would mostly take place in a complete non-canon AU where most canon events do not happen, which will be marked by a "|" divider and italics.
❤︎ Romantic relationship | ✿ Queerplatonic relationship | ★ Best friends | ✦ Friends | ⏾ Sexual relationship
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John B. Routledge
Sex/AGAB: Male
Orientation: Bisexual/biromantic
Gender(s): Cisgender man
Pronouns: He/him
Disabilities/Disorders: ADHD, autism, PTSD, night terrors
Ships (not just romantic): ❤︎ Sarah Cameron
✿ JJ Maybank
★ Kiara "Kie" Carrera, Pope Heyward, Cleo Anderson
✦ Wheezie Cameron
Misc Headcanons:

JJ Maybank
Sex/AGAB: Male | Female
Orientation: Bisexual/biromantic
Gender(s): Genderqueer man | Transgender man, genderqueer man
Pronouns: He/they
Disabilities/Disorders: Autism, ADHD, C-PTSD, dyslexia
Ships (not just romantic): ❤︎ Pope Heyward, Cleo Anderson, Sarah Cameron
✿ Kiara "Kie" Carrera, John B. Routledge
✦ Wheezie Cameron
Misc Headcanons:
Instead of Death: TBD

Pope Heyward
Sex/AGAB: Male
Orientation: Demi-bisexual/demi-biromantic
Gender(s): Genderqueer man
Pronouns: He/they
Disabilities/Disorders: Autism, generalised anxiety disorder, depression, BPD
Ships (not just romantic): ❤︎ JJ Maybank
✿ Cleo Anderson
★ John B. Routledge, Sarah Cameron, Kiara "Kie" Carrera
Misc Headcanons:

Kiara "Kie" Carrera
Sex/AGAB: Female
Orientation: Arospike lesbian
Gender(s): Genderqueer woman, demigirl, nonbinary woman
Pronouns: She/they
Disabilities/Disorders: Autism
Ships (not just romantic): ✿ Sarah Cameron, JJ Maybank, Cleo Anderson
★ Pope Heyward, John B. Routledge
✦ Wheezie Cameron
Misc Headcanons:

Cleo Anderson
Sex/AGAB: Male
Orientation: Pansexual/panromantic
Gender(s): Transfeminine, genderqueer woman, nonbinary woman, girlflux
Pronouns: They/she/it
Disabilities/Disorders: ADHD
Ships (not just romantic): ❤︎ JJ Maybank, Sarah Cameron
✿ Pope Heyward, Kiara "Kie" Carrera
★ John B. Routledge
Misc Headcanons: Cleo has been on estrogen without blockers for multiple years at this point, having had started by stealing money from tourists and using it to buy estrogen online at a young age.

Sarah Cameron
Sex/AGAB: Intersex (AFAB)
Orientation: Asexual/panromantic (sex favourable)
Gender(s): Cisgender woman, adfeminine
Pronouns: She/they
Disabilities/Disorders: Autism, ADHD, PTSD
Ships (not just romantic): ❤︎ John B. Routledge, JJ Maybank, Cleo Anderson
✿ Kiara "Kie" Carrera
★ Pope Heyward
Misc Headcanons: Due to her parents forcibly transitioning her to be closer to a perisex female, even Sarah herself isn't entirely aware of her own intersexuality.

Wheezie Cameron
Sex/AGAB: Female
Orientation: Queer
Gender(s): Genderqueer, nonbinary
Pronouns: They/she
Disabilities/Disorders: ADHD, generalised anxiety disorder
Ships (not just romantic): ✦ John B. Routledge, JJ Maybank, Kiara "Kie" Carrera
Misc Headcanons:

Rafe Cameron
Sex/AGAB: Male
Orientation: Gay | Bisexual/biromantic
Gender(s): Cisgender man | Closeted transgender woman
Pronouns: He/him | He/she
Disabilities/Disorders: BPD, StPD, autism, OCD, PTSD, generalised anxiety disorder, psychosis, depression
Ships (not just romantic): ❤︎ Barry, Sofia
Misc Headcanons: Though he finds learning languages incredibly boring and finds it frustrating and annoying when Sofia and Barry speak anything other than English, he nonetheless finds it attractive.
When he’s stressed he can easily spiral and start hallucinating, his most common hallucinations being the voice of Ward Cameron, a whispering voice that’s always in another room and speaks incomprehensibly, scratching on his shoulders and wrists, what feels like a hand running down his back,
and occasionally Barry’s voice trying to talk him down. He rarely has visual hallucinations, though when he does it’s usually just seeing a bright red or blue light that’s not there which sometimes makes it difficult to see clearly.
After being around the Cross of Santa Domingo for so long during withdrawals, he started to hear angels (singing, ringing, harps) and feel flames and heat on his feet, legs and hands.
When deep in a bad psychotic episode, he sometimes gets the delusion that Barry and Sofia can actually read his mind, which has an equal chance of either sending him deeper and making him more paranoid or giving him a strange comfort that he’s not alone in his own mind or that he doesn’t have to say everything he’s thinking.
Rafe is a switch and a vers, though he tends to lean heavily towards submission, though he often puts on an act of dominance during hookups with women.
Despite being a gay man, he feels a lot of sensual, aesthetic and vocal attraction to women, usually choosing his fake girlfriends (or “beards”) based on looks and voice.
The original reasons he chose Sofia to date were because he liked her voice, liked her dark hair, and thought she was aesthetically beautiful. He stayed with her because he liked the way she felt and how much she seemed to care about him.
Rafe is incredibly possessive and protective of Barry, quickly getting violently jealous whenever he sees Barry with others, especially if he doesn’t know them. The only exception to this jealousy is Sofia.
He is quite protective over Sofia, but never to the same level he is of Barry, mostly just protecting her from leering men and his and Barry's dangerous lifestyles.

Sofia
Sex/AGAB: Male
Orientation: Pansexual/panromantic
Gender(s): Transgender woman
Pronouns: She/her
Disabilities/Disorders: Autism, anxiety
Ships (not just romantic): ❤︎ Rafe Cameron
★ Barry
⏾ Barry
Whenever she wants to speak more privately, or even just to annoy/tease Rafe, she likes to speak Spanish to Barry
She likes to sing and hum when doing things.
Due to working in bartending, Sofia has a secret talent for reading men, learning how to get the highest tip or push people’s buttons to get them to back off.
She is a switch/vers, when domming she takes on a more soft domme role and when submitting tends to be very playful and occasionally bratty, and generally prefers to bottom.
Though her family doesn't have much money, her parents have supported her transition ever since she came out to them at a young age, getting her on puberty blockers as soon as possible and starting her on HRT. Once she started working at the country club, she was able to pay for her HRT mostly on her own and began pooling together money for bottom surgery, though it was only until after meeting Rafe that she was able to afford it with some of his help.

Barry
Sex/AGAB: Male | Female
Orientation: Bisexual/biromantic
Gender(s): Genderqueer man, cisgender man | Transgender man, genderqueer man
Pronouns: He/she
Disabilities/Disorders: ADHD, generalised anxiety disorder, PTSD
Ships (not just romantic): ❤︎ Rafe Cameron
★ Sofia
⏾ Sofia
Misc Headcanons: He is mixed with a first generation latina mother and a white Italian father.
As a side affect of his business dealings, Barry has a startling talent for reading people, to the point where he’s known to essentially be able to read people’s minds, giving him an advantage on how to manipulate or push people's buttons when they don’t follow through on deals.
He has a single sister called Jessie who’s older than him and acted as a protector throughout their lives, speaking up for him when he was younger.
He and his sister both cut contact with their dad around the same time, and he is still incredibly close with her, giving her free weed and hanging out with her often.
Whenever she wants to speak more privately, or even just to annoy/tease Rafe, she likes to speak Spanish to Barry
He often call Rafe princess, baby, pretty boy, baby boy as petnames, as well as the typical country club.
He uses variations of kitten, puppy, mutt, pet, baby, pretty girl, and baby girl as petnames for Sofia.
Barry takes the position of a dom/vers, and is typically a pretty hard dom, though is known to be gentler when domming women.
She has a large family that is majority men and is pretty bigoted.
Originally, he got sent off to the army by his father after he came out as bi, under the impression that it would be a good way for him to “man up” and stop being interested in men (though it did the complete opposite).
He’s close with his mom, who's the one who taught him and his sister Spanish and try to comfort them, and was
a little more accepting of their sexuality (though still very confused). He wishes he could talk to her more often, but having cut contact with his dad, it’s become very difficult.
Barry participate in cruising culture and typically flags:
She is incredibly possessive and protective of Rafe. He’s usually good at hiding it, especially when it comes to the women he sleeps with, logically aware that Rafe could never feel the same about them as he does about him, but can occasionally get violent and jealous when it sees Rafe with other men, especially ones he doesn’t approve of.
He is also quite protective over Sofia, but never to the same level he is of Rafe, mostly just protecting her from leering men and his and Rafe’s lifestyles.